Our discussion in class on Tuesday reminded me of another
reason that doing a “family tree” project is important. We were talking about
cultural background and its importance in our lives. Pauline mentioned that
people with more “diluted” cultural backgrounds often have trouble identifying
with one culture or another. I think that this conundrum must be especially
difficult for people who are – or even just appear to be – of more than one
ethnicity.
Although I am of only one ethnicity, my background is actually
fairly diverse and diluted. My father is half Swedish and half Italian, making
me one-fourth Italian and one-fourth Swedish, while my mother’s background is a
disparate mixture of nationalities, including Scottish, English, Russian, and
German. Although my background is all western European, each country where I am
“from” has a completely different culture and distinct traditions. Thus, I have
never thought of myself as very connected to my cultural backgrounds, but
rather as “American” – more than anything else, anyway. For instance, my family
has never really had a particular kind of food – like Italian, for example –
that they make because that food is a part of their cultural background. We eat
all kinds of cuisine – Asian, American, Italian, Indian, French, Mexican – and
we don’t really eat any one kind more than another.
As a child, and even sometimes as an adult, I felt jealous
of friends because their cultural background was clearer and a bigger part of
their lives. I think having a distinct cultural background as an important part
of your life can be nice because often there are large communities of cultures,
and people can connect to each other based on their shared cultural background.
For example, there are certain neighborhoods in many cities where there is a
dominant cultural background, such as the Irish south end of Boston. Similarly,
many people at Michigan are Jewish and make friends by going to Hillel and
joining the Jewish community here. Sometimes I wish that I had a certain community
that I could join and feel connected to the people in it based on shared
cultural background.
I think that learning more about my family and my ancestors
will make me feel closer to my own cultural background and the various
nationalities that comprise it.
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